Covenants and commitments: exploring the need for a group covenant

While many small groups are "open groups" meaning; people can join them at any time, there are certain groups that will look to establish a formal commitment among the group members.  These commitments are often referred to as a "group covenant," which the leader will ask them to agree to on or before the first night that they gather as a group.

Some group leaders look to establish the covenant in a formal way by having each member of the group read and sign a group covenant.  Other leaders are less formal and simply look for all of the group members to understand the expectations related to the group and ask members to do their best to live up to those expectations throughout the season.  Still others opt to simply  explain and promote the value of regular attendance and weekly relational connection and never ask for a formal signed commitment.

Below are examples of group dynamics where covenants are helpful and most effective.

More Is Expected:

A group covenant can be effective and even necessary when the form and function of the group depends on commitment.  Sometimes the commitment is not only to attend the group, but to do some sort of extra study or work outside of the groups formal gathering.

Shared Values:

Another reason to establish a group covenant may be that your group operates with a high commitment to values such as honesty, accountability, and confidentiality.

Limited Space:

Churches often offer courses and classes through their small groups and space may be limited.  Having people sign a covenant will help ensure that those valuable spaces are filled by committed people.  For instance; some of our sports related life groups operate on a commitment that all will be present in order to play as a group or team.  

[Sample life group covenant]

Welcome!  We're so glad that you are choosing to be a part of this life group. We are looking forward to the growth and relational connection we will all experience together in this group.  This group covenant is a way for you to establish and express your personal commitment to making this group a priority in your life over the next 13 weeks.  As part of this group, you are being asked to make the following commitments:

1.  I will make this group a priority by attending each week, keeping up with at home assignments and participating openly and willingly in group discussion.

2.  I will work to build relationships with others in the group.  I will show care, provide encouragement and pray for the needs of others in the group.

3.  I commit to exploring honestly my next steps of spiritual growth and transformation.

Signature:

Date signed: